You want it all, and you can have it…after you’ve read this.
Exposed day 12
You want a successful business that you’re passionate about and in love with. Not only that but a business that pays the bills, and some to have fun with, without worry.
One that easily allows you to set healthy boundaries around your time and life.
You want to work, I don’t know, maybe three days…15 to 20 hours max, and have the rest of the week just for fun and relaxation.
To not feel rushed and to be able to take your time.
To know without a doubt, that you were spending your time wisely.
Have all the time you want to have for family and friends.
To be in shape… to have a healthy and happy relationship… to be a good parent…to feel deeply energized…
For life to look and feel full. Waking up ready for the day, and lying in bed at night, grateful for the day that just happened but also excited for the next.
To have the space to enjoy little things. To be able to sit around for an hour and do nothing, just looking out the window, or reading or listening to a podcast.
To feel happy, content, and at peace with each moment today, instead of “one day”.
I’m all here for your dreams.
All this means to me is that it’s clear you care a lot about yourself and want the best for yourself. And that’s freaking amazing. You’re going to need this part of you to make it happen.
However, there’s a voice inside of you that says the success you want isn’t actually humanly possible.
There’s too much/not enough _____.
It’s a voice of reason, backed by your external circumstances. ← No gaslighting here.
You’re skeptical because of the voice that tells you, “Nah…it’s not possible, especially for you.”
“There’s no way anyone else has figured it out.”
BUT… you still wish you knew how to finally make that dream life happen, that’s why you keep working. That’s why you rush. That’s why you feel like you’re short of time.
So if you will, can you pause for me? Right now. Take a moment, put your hand on your heart. Close your eyes if you want.
What does that deeper voice say?
Probably something like: “No, everything is possible. My dreams are possible.” “If I do things right, I can.”
While the other voice is still trying to interject, distract, and tell you, “You need to be realistic here!!!”
Your deeper voice is up for the challenge.
Want to know how to get all the beautiful, wonderful (and REALISTIC) things you dream of having?
Listen to that deeper voice. Work from that deeper voice. Live from that deeper voice.
And do everything in your power to discover or create the tools, strategies, and structures to be able to do that. (This is how I support the amazing beautiful business owners I work with. Message me if you want to find out how I can support you.)
That’s your key.
I won’t lie, it takes effort.
We’re up against family norms, societal norms, even ourselves and the voice inside that’s just trying to keep us safe.
But you are worth it.
You already know that.
It’s possible, and you can have it all.
